Waiting in the Crucible
Scientists did an experiment with four-year-old children and marshmallows. Each child was told by a scientist that they could have a marshmallow; however, if the child waited until the scientist returned from an errand, they would be given two. Some of the children stuffed the marshmallow into their mouths the moment the scientist left; others waited. The differences were noted.
The scientists then kept track of these children into their teenage years. The ones who had waited turned out to be better adjusted, better students, and more confident than those who didn’t. It seemed that patience was indicative of something greater, something important in the human character. It is no wonder, then, that the Lord tells us to cultivate it.
This week, we’ll look at what could be behind some of the most trying of all crucibles: the crucibles of waiting.
* Study this week’s lesson to prepare for Sabbath, September 10.
Sabbath Afternoon, September 3
Christ presented to men that which was entirely contrary to the
representations of the enemy in regard to the character of God, and
sought to impress upon men the love of the Father, who “so loved the
world, that He gave His only-begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in
Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16. He urged upon
men the necessity of prayer, repentance, confession, and the abandonment
of sin. He taught them honesty, forbearance, mercy, and compassion,
enjoining upon them to love not only those who loved them, but those
who hated them and treated them despitefully. In all this He was revealing
to them the character of the Father, who is long-suffering, merciful, and
gracious, slow to anger, and full of goodness and
truth.—
Counsels to Parents, Teachers,
and Students
, pp. 29, 30.
The lives of His people are to reveal love, meekness, long-suffering. Long-suffering bears something, yea, many things, without seeking to be avenged by word or act.
“Long-suffering” is patience with offence; long endurance. If you are
long-suffering, you will not impart to others your supposed knowledge of
your brother’s mistakes and errors. You will seek to help and save him,
because he has been purchased with the blood of Christ. “Tell him his fault
between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy
brother.” “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual
restore such a one in the spirit of meekness, considering thyself, lest thou
also be tempted.” To be long-suffering is not to be gloomy and sad, sour
and hardhearted; it is to be exactly the
opposite.—My Life Today, p. 52.
I saw that those who profess the truth should hold the standard high, and induce others to come up to it. I saw that some would have to walk the straight path alone. Their companions and children will not walk the self-denying pathway with them. Patience and forbearance should ever characterize the lives of those lone pilgrims, following the example of their blessed Master. They will have many trials to endure, but they have a hope that makes the soul strong, that bears them up above the trials of earth, that elevates them above scorn, derision and reproach. Those who possess a hope like this should never indulge a harsh, unkind spirit. This will only injure their own souls, and drive their friends farther from the truth. Treat them tenderly. Give them no occasion to reproach the cause of Christ; but never yield the truth to please any one. Be decided, be fixed, be established, be not of a doubtful mind.—Spiritual Gifts, vol. 2, p. 266.
We are normally impatient about things that we really want or have been promised but don’t have yet. We are often satisfied only when we get what we are longing for. And because we rarely get what we want when we want it, it means that we are often doomed to irritation and impatience. And when we are in this state, it is almost impossible to maintain peace and trust in God.
Waiting is painful by definition. In Hebrew, one of the words for “wait patiently” (Ps. 37:7, NKJV) comes from a Hebrew word that can be translated “to be much pained,” “to shake,” “to tremble,” “to be wounded,” “to be sorrowful.” Learning patience is not easy; sometimes it’s the very essence of what it means to be in the crucible.
While we wait, we can concentrate on one of two things. We can focus on the things that we are waiting for, or we can focus on the One who holds those things in His hands. What makes such a difference when we wait for something isn’t so much how long we have to wait but our attitude while we wait. If we trust the Lord, if we have placed our lives in His hands, if we have surrendered our wills to Him, then we can trust that He will do what’s best for us when it’s best for us, no matter how hard it is sometimes to believe it.
Sunday, September 4
We may walk in the enjoyment of the truth. It need not be to us a yoke of bondage, but a consolation, a message to us of glad tidings of great joy, animating our hearts and causing us to make melody in our hearts unto God. Through patience and comfort of the Scriptures we have hope. The Christian hope is not gloomy, comfortless. Oh, no, no. It does not shut us up in a prison of doubts and fears. The truth makes free those who love and are sanctified through it. They walk in the glorious liberty of the sons of God.
We who claim to believe the truth should reveal its fruits in our words
and character. We are to be far advanced in a knowledge of Jesus Christ, in
the reception of His love for God and for our neighbor, in order to have
the sunlight of heaven shining in our daily life. Truth must reach down to
the deepest recesses of the soul, and cleanse away everything unlike the
spirit of Christ, and the vacuum be supplied by the attributes of His
character who was pure and holy and undefiled, that all the springs of the
heart may be as flowers, fragrant with perfume, a sweet-smelling savor, a
savor of life unto life.—Our High Calling, p. 33.
When we are encompassed with doubt, perplexed by circumstances, or afflicted by poverty or distress, Satan seeks to shake our confidence in Jehovah. It is then that he arrays before us our mistakes and tempts us to distrust God, to question His love. He hopes to discourage the soul and break our hold on God.
. . . But God understands, and He still pities and loves. He reads the
motives and the purposes of the heart. To wait patiently, to trust when
everything looks dark, is the lesson that the leaders in God’s work need to
learn. Heaven will not fail them in their day of adversity. Nothing is
apparently more helpless, yet really more invincible, than the soul that
feels its nothingness and relies wholly on
God.—Prophets and Kings, pp. 174, 175.
The lessons that God sends will always, if well learned, bring help in due time. Put your trust in God. Pray much, and believe. Trusting, hoping, believing, holding fast the hand of Infinite Power, you will be more than conquerors.
True workers walk and work by faith. Sometimes they grow weary with watching the slow advance of the work when the battle wages strong between the powers of good and evil. But if they refuse to fail or be discouraged they will see the clouds breaking away and the promise of deliverance fulfilling. Through the mist with which Satan has surrounded them, they will see the shining of the bright beams of the Sun of Righteousness.
Work in faith, and leave results with God. Pray in faith, and the mystery of His providence will bring its answer. At times it may seem that you cannot succeed. But work and believe, putting into your efforts faith, hope, and courage. After doing what you can, wait for the Lord, declaring His faithfulness, and He will bring His word to pass. Wait, not in fretful anxiety, but in undaunted faith and unshaken trust.—Testimonies for the Church, vol. 7, p. 245.
In these verses, Paul tells us that Jesus came to die for us at exactly the right time. But Paul does not tell us why it was the right time. It is very easy to read these verses and wonder, Why did Jesus wait for thousands of years until He came to the earth to deal with sin—didn’t the universe understand that sin was a very bad thing long before then?We may ask why Jesus is waiting to come the second time, as well. We also may ask, Why is the Lord waiting so long to answer my prayer?
There are many important spiritual reasons why we will experience waiting times. First, waiting can refocus our attention away from “things” and back to God Himself. Second, waiting allows us to develop a clearer picture of our own motives and desires. Third, waiting builds perseverance —spiritual stamina. Fourth, waiting opens the door to developing many spiritual strengths, such as faith and trust. Fifth, waiting allows God to put down other pieces in the puzzle of the bigger picture. Sixth, we may never know the reason we have to wait; hence, we learn to live by faith. Can you think of any other reasons for waiting?
Monday, September 5
I cannot read the purpose of God in my affliction, but He knows what is best, and I will commit my soul, body, and spirit to Him as unto my faithful Creator. “For I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I have committed unto Him against that day” (2 Timothy 1:12). If we educated and trained our souls to have more faith, more love, greater patience, and a more perfect trust in our heavenly Father, I know we would have more peace and happiness day by day as we pass through the conflicts of this life.
The Lord is not pleased to have us fret and worry ourselves out of the
arms of Jesus. More is needed of the quiet waiting and watching
combined. We think unless we have feeling that we are not in the right
track, and we keep looking within for some sign befitting the occasion;
but the reckoning is not of feeling but of
faith.—Selected Messages, book 2, p. 242.
We need not expect all sunshine in this world. Clouds and storms will cluster about us, and we must be prepared to keep our eyes directed where we saw the light last. Its rays may be hidden but they still live, still shine beyond the cloud. It is our work to wait, to watch, to pray, and to believe. We shall prize the light of the sun more highly after the clouds disappear. We shall see the salvation of God if we trust in God in the darkness as well as in the light.
All trials, all afflictions, all peace, all safety, health, hope, life, and
success are in God’s hands, and He can control them all for the good of
His children. It is our privilege to be suppliants, to ask anything and
everything of God, submitting our request in submission to His wise
purposes and infinite
will.—Our High Calling, p. 318.
God designs that His people shall fix their eyes heavenward, looking for the glorious appearing of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. While the attention of worldlings is turned to various enterprises, ours should be to the heavens; our faith should reach further and further into the glorious mysteries of the heavenly treasure, drawing the precious, divine rays of light from the heavenly sanctuary to shine in our hearts, as they shine upon the face of Jesus. The scoffers mock the waiting, watching ones, and inquire: “Where is the promise of His coming? . . .” The waiting ones look upward and answer: “We are watching.” And by turning from earthly pleasure and worldly fame, and from the deceitfulness of riches, they show themselves to be in that position. By watching they become strong; they overcome sloth and selfishness and love of ease. Affliction’s fire kindles upon them, and the waiting time seems long. They sometimes grieve, and faith falters; but they rally again, overcome their fears and doubts, and while their eyes are directed heavenward, say to their adversaries: “I am watching, I am waiting the return of my Lord. I will glory in tribulation, in affliction, in necessities.”—Testimonies for the Church, vol. 2, pp. 194, 195.
In 1 Samuel 16:1–13, we see David anointed by Samuel as king. However, it was a long journey from the fields of his father, Jesse, to the throne in Jerusalem. No doubt, at times, he felt he was in the midst of a crucible.
First, the lad is called to play music to soothe Saul’s troubled spirit (1 Samuel 16). Later, he becomes Israel’s hero as he kills Goliath (1 Samuel 17). Then there are many years during which David is running for his life. Both Saul and his son Jonathan know that David is destined to be the next king (1 Sam. 23:17, 1 Sam. 24:20). But David does nothing to advance his God-given destiny. In fact, he appears to do the opposite. Even when Saul tries to kill him and David snips a piece of cloth off the king’s robe, he wishes he had never done such a thing (1 Sam. 24:5–7). Again when Saul is trying to kill David, David refuses to kill Saul when the opportunity arises (1 Sam. 26:7–11).
Looking at the whole of David’s road to the throne, we could perhaps summarize it in a short sentence—don’t grab what God has not yet given. God’s gifts are always best received from His hand and in His time. This may require a very long time of waiting. Bean sprouts may literally grow up within hours, while an oak tree will take many years. But then when the strong winds come, the tree will not be uprooted.
Tuesday, September 6
Hidden by the deep shadows of the hills, David and his attendant entered the encampment of the enemy. As they sought to ascertain the exact number of their foes, they came upon Saul sleeping, his spear stuck in the ground, and a cruse of water at his head. Beside him lay Abner, his chief commander, and all around them were the soldiers, locked in slumber. Abishai raised his spear, and said to David, “God hath delivered thine enemy into thine hand this day: now therefore let me smite him, I pray thee. . . .” He waited for the word of permission; but there fell upon his ear the whispered words: “Destroy him not: for who can stretch forth his hand against the Lord’s anointed, and be guiltless? . . . As the Lord liveth, the Lord shall smite him; or his day shall come to die; or he shall descend into battle, and perish. The Lord forbid that I should stretch forth mine hand against the Lord’s anointed.” . . .
The second instance of David’s respect for his sovereign’s life made a
still deeper impression upon the mind of Saul and brought from him a
more humble acknowledgment of his fault. He was astonished and
subdued at the manifestation of such kindness. In parting from David, Saul
exclaimed, “Blessed be thou, my son David: thou shalt both do great
things, and also shalt still prevail.” But the son of Jesse had no hope that
the king would long continue in this frame of
mind.—Patriarchs and Prophets, pp. 668–672.
It is important to believe God’s word and act upon it promptly, while
His angels are waiting to work for us. Evil angels are ready to contest
every step of advance. And when God’s providence bids His children go
forward, when He is ready to do great things for them, Satan tempts them
to displease the Lord by hesitation and delay; he seeks to kindle a spirit of
strife or to arouse murmuring or unbelief, and thus deprive them of the
blessings that God desired to bestow. God’s servants should be
minutemen, ever ready to move as fast as His providence opens the way.
And delay on their part gives time for Satan to work to defeat
them.—Patriarchs and Prophets, p. 423.
The Lord does not always choose for His work men of the greatest talents, but He selects those whom He can best use. Individuals who might do good service for God, may for a time be left in obscurity, apparently unnoticed and unemployed by their Master. But if they faithfully perform the duties of their humble position, cherishing a willingness to labor and to sacrifice for Him, He will in His own time entrust them with greater responsibilities.
Before honor is humility. The Lord can use most effectually those who are most sensible of their own unworthiness and inefficiency. He will teach them to exercise the courage of faith. He will make them strong by uniting their weakness to His might, wise by connecting their ignorance with His wisdom.—Ellen G. White Comments, in The SDA Bible Commentary, vol. 2, p. 1003.
The showdown on top of Mount Carmel had ended (1 Kings 18). Fire had come out of heaven, all the people had acknowledged the true God, and the false prophets had been put to death. God had been vindicated. You would have thought that Elijah had been growing in spiritual strength as the day went on, but suddenly he heard something that terrified him so much that he wanted to die. Read the rest of the story in 1 Kings 19:1–9. The last words in the text are worrisome: “And the word of the LORD came to him: ‘What are you doing here, Elijah?’ ” (1 Kings 19:9, NIV).Evidently, Elijah’s fear caused him to run and find himself in the wrong place.
This story illustrates something important: when we rush, we can very easily find ourselves in the wrong place. In Elijah’s case, it was his fear that caused him to be overwhelmed and rush into the desert, wishing that he had never been born. But there are other things that cause us to rush outside of God’s plan for us.
How easy it is to let such things as ambition, anger, passion, lack of faith, or a supposed “zeal” for the Lord cause us to rush ahead to where we shouldn’t be. No one is immune to this danger. The key is to cultivate a trusting faith in the goodness and mercy of God, who we know loves us and wants what’s best for us. This doesn’t happen automatically. Faith might be a gift, but it’s a gift that needs to be cultivated, nurtured, and jealously guarded.
Wednesday, September 7
God met His tried servant with the inquiry, “What doest thou here, Elijah?” I sent you to the brook Cherith and afterward to the widow of Sarepta. I commissioned you to return to Israel and to stand before the idolatrous priests on Carmel, and I girded you with strength to guide the chariot of the king to the gate of Jezreel. But who sent you on this hasty flight into the wilderness? What errand have you here? . . .
Much depends on the unceasing activity of those who are true and
loyal, and for this reason Satan puts forth every possible effort to thwart
the divine purpose to be wrought out through the obedient. He causes
some to lose sight of their high and holy mission, and to become satisfied
with the pleasures of this life. . . . Others he causes to flee in
discouragement from duty, because of opposition or persecution. . . . To
every child of God whose voice the enemy of souls has succeeded in
silencing, the question is addressed, “What doest thou here?” I
commissioned you to go into all the world and preach the gospel, to
prepare a people for the day of God. Why are you
here?—Conflict and Courage, p. 214.
Remember that prayer is the source of your strength. A worker cannot gain success while he hurries through his prayers and rushes away to look after something that he fears may be neglected or forgotten. He gives only a few hurried thoughts to God; he does not take time to think, to pray, to wait upon the Lord for a renewal of physical and spiritual strength. He soon becomes weary. He does not feel the uplifting, inspiring influence of God’s Spirit. He is not quickened by fresh life. His jaded frame and tired brain are not soothed by personal contact with Christ.
. . . There are those who work all day and far into the night to do what
seems to them must be done. The Lord looks pityingly upon these weary,
heavy-laden burden bearers and says to them: “Come unto Me, . . . and I
will give you rest.” Matthew
11:28.—Testimonies for the Church, vol. 7, pp. 243, 244.
When men are as devoted as Elijah was and possess the faith that he had, God will reveal Himself as He did then. When men plead with the Lord as did Jacob, the results that were seen then will again be seen. Power will come from God in answer to the prayer of faith.
Because the life of Jesus was a life of constant trust, sustained by continual communion, His service for heaven was without failure or faltering. . . . Christ knew that He must strengthen His humanity by prayer. In order to be a blessing to men, He must commune with God, from Him obtaining energy, perseverance, steadfastness.—Gospel Workers, pp. 255, 256.
“Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart” (Ps. 37:4, NRSV).
Psalm 37:4 is a wonderful promise. Imagine getting what you have always wanted. But getting the desires of our hearts hinges on having hearts that take delight in the Lord. So, what does it mean to “take delight in the LORD”?
Read Psalm 37:1–11. The context for Psalm 37:4 is, perhaps, a little surprising. David is writing about being surrounded by people who are working against God and against him. When people are working against us, the natural response is often to get angry or to set out to justify ourselves. But David advises something different.
David is repeating again and again, in different ways, “Trust God.” Trust Him to act. Don’t get upset, because God is your God, and He is working for you—even right now. You don’t have to charge in and try to sort things out by yourself. Your Father in heaven is in charge. Trust Him. Trust Him completely.
It is in this context that David writes about taking delight in the Lord. To take delight in God means that we live in a state of perfect trust. Nothing can ruffle our peace, because God is here and at work. We can praise Him, we can even smile, because no one can outwit our God! When we can learn to do this, we really will receive what our hearts long for, because we will receive what our loving Father wants to give us, at the time that most benefits us and His kingdom.
Thursday, September 8
The psalmist says, “Trust in the Lord, and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.” Psalm 37:3. “Trust in the Lord.” Each day has its burdens, its cares and perplexities; and when we meet how ready we are to talk of our difficulties and trials. So many borrowed troubles intrude, so many fears are indulged, such a weight of anxiety is expressed, that one might suppose we had no pitying, loving Saviour ready to hear all our requests and to be to us a present help in every time of need.
Some are always fearing, and borrowing trouble. Every day they are
surrounded with the tokens of God’s love; every day they are enjoying the
bounties of His providence; but they overlook these present blessings.
Their minds are continually dwelling upon something disagreeable which
they fear may come; or some difficulty may really exist which, though
small, blinds their eyes to the many things that demand
gratitude.—Steps to Christ, pp. 121, 122.
In every trial we have strong consolation. Is not our Saviour touched with the feeling of our infirmities? Has He not been tempted in all points like as we are? And has He not invited us to take every trial and perplexity to Him? Then let us not make ourselves miserable over tomorrow’s burdens. Bravely and cheerfully carry the burdens of today. Today’s trust and faith we must have. But we are not asked to live more than a day at a time. He who gives strength for today will give strength for tomorrow. . . .
Nothing wounds the soul like the sharp darts of unbelief. When trial
comes, as it will, do not worry or complain. Silence in the soul makes
more distinct the voice of God. “Then are they glad because they be quiet”
(Psalm 107:30). Remember that underneath you are the everlasting arms.
“Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for him” (Psalm 37:7). He is guiding
you into a harbor of gracious
experience.—In Heavenly Places, p. 269.
We need to appreciate more fully the meaning of the words: “I sat down under His shadow with great delight.” Song of Solomon 2:3. These words do not bring to our minds the picture of hasty transit, but of quiet rest. . . .
Let us turn from the dusty, heated thoroughfares of life to rest in the shadow of Christ’s love. Here we gain strength for conflict. Here we learn how to lessen toil and worry, and how to speak and sing to the praise of God. Let the weary and the heavy-laden learn from Christ the lesson of quiet trust. They must sit under His shadow if they would be possessors of His peace and rest.—Testimonies for the Church, vol. 7, pp. 69, 70.
Further Thought: Read Ellen G. White, “The Anointing of David,” pp. 637–642, in Patriarchs and Prophets.
God’s plan for us may require that we do a lot of waiting, and this really can feel like a crucible. Learning patience during this time can happen as we focus on the person of God and trust that He is acting for us. There are many reasons for waiting, but all are concerned with the fulfillment of God’s plans for us and His kingdom. We can lose much if we rush ahead of God, but we can gain much by maintaining an attitude of trust and delight in Him.
The Lord weighs and measures every trial.
“I cannot read the purpose of God in my affliction, but He knows what is best, and I will commit my soul, body, and spirit to Him as unto my faithful Creator. ‘For I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day’ (2 Tim. 1:12). If we educated and trained our souls to have more faith, more love, greater patience, and a more perfect trust in our heavenly Father, I know we would have more peace and happiness day by day as we pass through the conflicts of this life.
“The Lord is not pleased to have us fret and worry ourselves out of the arms of Jesus. More is needed of the quiet waiting and watching combined. We think unless we have feeling that we are not in the right track, and we keep looking within for some sign befitting the occasion; but the reckoning is not of feeling but of faith.”—Ellen G. White, Selected Messages, book 2, p. 242.
Discussion Questions:
Friday, September 9
In Heavenly Places, “Graces to Cherish,” p. 244;
Testimonies for the Church, “Christian Forbearance,” vol. 5, pp. 331–336.
Two weeks before Father’s baptism, he inexplicably grew angry after guests left the house following a small-group Bible study in Manaus, Brazil, on Friday evening. He announced that he would sleep in the living room.
The night was darker than usual. Electricity went out in the neighborhood, leaving the houses and streets in pitch blackness.
About 1:00 A.M., Junior woke up to the sound of a voice shrieking that Father was not going to be baptized.
Junior was scared and didn’t know what to do. He stayed in his room to see what would happen.
The voice screamed again, saying that Father was not going to be baptized.
Junior waited.
He heard someone enter his room.
“Please, Son, pray with me,” Father said. “The enemy is attacking again.”
Another voice spoke. “What are you doing?” It was Mother. When she heard the screams from the living room, she had sunk onto her knees and began to pray. Now she invited Father and Junior to join her in pleading for Jesus to chase away the evil spirits.
After some minutes of prayer, Mother suggested that they step outside the house where they would be able to see one another in the dim moonlight.
Outside, Father said he was thirsty. Junior volunteered to go back in and fetch a glass of water. In the kitchen, he spotted a mysterious dark spot on the floor. Calling for Mother, he pointed at the spot and asked, “What’s that?” Mother looked closely at the floor. “That’s hair!” she said.
Back outside, Junior and Mother took a closer look at Father. Big tufts of hair were missing from his head. It looked as if someone had taken a pair of scissors and chopped off his hair haphazardly.
Father put his hands to the top of his head and winced.
“I’ll have to shave my head,” he said. “I don’t care if I’m bald.”
When the sun rose on Sabbath morning, Father felt terribly tired. He was unusually weak after the nighttime attack by evil spirits, as if he had received a severe beating. He decided to pray at home instead of going to church.
After Mother and Junior left, he prayed, “Jesus, don’t let them take over my body. Please be close to me. I don’t want to be possessed anymore.”
Opening his Bible, he read in Psalms 37:5, “Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass” (NKJV).
Father understood that Jesus was telling him not to be afraid. Jesus would guide him to his baptism. Sure enough, evil spirits never possessed Father again after that Friday night. But he could still hear them.
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